Episode 24: 3 Reasons Why Focusing on the SELF is Essential to Being Led by the SPIRIT
August 15, 2024
The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 24: 3 Reasons Why Focusing on the SELF is Essential to Being Led by the SPIRIT
In this episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, hosts Austin and Rachel Holt explore a powerful topic that challenges the common belief in Christian circles: Is focusing on the self truly selfish, or is it essential to being led by the Spirit? Discover the three compelling reasons why understanding yourself is a key part of being Spirit-led and how it can improve your relationship with God, your spouse, and those around you.
Austin and Rachel discuss how self-awareness, self-control, and self-love are biblical principles that can transform your marriage and Christian walk. They dive deep into common misconceptions around selfishness and explain how knowing the self is crucial for loving others well and fulfilling God’s will in your life.
Key Points Covered:
- The importance of self-awareness for self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)
- How focusing on yourself can help you love God and others better (Matthew 7:3-5)
- Why knowing your blocks and triggers can lead you to deeper faith and connection with the Holy Spirit
- Practical ways to make space for introspection and personal growth within your marriage and faith journey
Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.
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- Austin and Rachel Holt
Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
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